WHAT DO YOU WANT TO CHANGE?
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The untamed human mind
is the source of all the suffering
on this planet.
This
is what happens
when humans can't
control their minds
(have untamed minds)
This is what happens when humans learn to
control their minds
(tame their minds)
The answer to becoming the most Loving version of yourself is to
tame your mind
Anger
Arrogance
Addiction
Anxiety
Brutality
Betrayal
Bigotry
Corruption
Cruelty
Cynicism
Deceit
Delusion
Dysfunction
"Evil"
Fanaticism
Fear
Humanity has known how to do this for 1,000s
of years. So why are we still so messed up?
Because the knowledge and practice of how to tame your mind has been the domain of religions and spiritual traditions. There are two issues with that:
-
Many people don’t like religion/spirituality,
so they can’t pick out the knowledge and practices from all the other things they don’t like -
Religions don’t regularly cooperate with each other,
so knowledge and practices from one religion aren't used by another
This is why taming the mind has been a
THOSE PEOPLE thing and not an ALL OF US thing.
So, if we're serious about changing our behaviour and living in peace—and you are serious, right?—then there needs to be a way to communicate
how to tame your mind in modern, practical, religiously/spiritually neutral language so that everyone, no matter what they believe, can do it. No excuses.
And now there is.
Amity
Benevolence
Compassion
Calm
Decency
Discipline
Energy
Ease
Equity
Fairness
Fearlessness
Forgiveness
Fun
Glee
Gratitude
Happiness
Harmony
Improvement
Integrity
Joy
Justice
Kindness
Liberty
Maturity
Mental health
Non-violence
Openness
Optimism
Patience
Peace
Reason
Relaxation
Resilience
Selflessness
Stability
Tenderness
Tolerance
Unity
Wisdom
and
Love
Fraud
Greed
Guilt
Habitat destruction
Harassment
Hatred
Hypocrisy
Impatience
Injustice
Insecurity
Intolerance
Jealousy
Judgement
Misogyny
Murder
Neuroticism
Profiteering
Rage
Repression
Resentment
Self-sabotage
Shame
Stigma
Suffering
Terror
Vice
Violence
Worry
and
Ego
You can tame your mind by practicing Love.
It's not woo-woo. It just takes practice.
You can even become Love—meaning, all of your actions are patient, forgiving, grateful and compassionate.
This guide teaches you exactly how to do that.
No platitudes. No preaching. Just practice.
And we need you to start practicing right now:
Because the more Loving you become, the more peaceful the planet becomes.
P.S. If you need help getting started, or staying focused, consider me your Become Love Coach.
2019
About the Writer
My name is Alexander De Jordy, and I've been obsessed for the last decade with developing a practical way to BECOME LOVE so we can all finally live in peace. And I did it. It works. I'm proof.
I went from being a moody, insensitive, depressed, practicing drug addict who couldn't spend 10 minutes alone with his thoughts—
to spending all day joyfully at peace because I learned how to control my mind by practicing patience, forgiveness, gratitude and compassion, or what I call: The 4 Practicable Actions of Love.
Now that I've sorted myself out, I'm ready to help others. I want to help you skip all the trial and error, dead-ends and hiccups that I went through so you can get right down to the work.
Here's how I can help:
2024
The Coaching Edition
Think of The Coaching Edition like a private workshop in a book. It’s like I knocked on your door, you invited me in, and we spent the next week creating a personalized plan for you to become the most Loving version of yourself—the version of you that doesn't suffer, that feels joyful, that helps humanity live in peace.
As you work through this edition, I will prompt you to fill in The Become Love Training Plan, an 80-page workbook at the back. But this is not a workbook you fill in once and forget. This is a training plan you will revisit for the rest of your life.
The Become Love Training Plan will show you:
Who You Are Now
Who You Want to Become
How to Get From Here to There
What to Do to Get There
Why You Want to Get There
